My Horse Just Slapped Me Like Gibbs on NCIS

I am a horse addict and I collect horses. There's noWorthington's Herbs and Animals website).
doubt about it. There's also no doubt that my horsesNevertheless, the message was clear. Walker was
live up to their reputation as "hay burners" and eatsaying,
through my budget like biblical locusts."Hey, you keep thinking that I'm here for you, that I'm
Nevertheless, they are cheaper than shrinks and theysupposed to serve you as your 'reward horse'! Not to
provide me more therapy than any licensedmention the fact that you keep thinking about selling
psychiatrist ever could.me. Well I have got news for you -- you are supposed
How's that for rationalization?to be here for me, too. You are supposed to help me,
Horse Therapy from Walker, My Hothouse Floweryou know! We weren't brought together just so I could
I have a quarter horse gelding named Walker, whom Ibe your dream horse. You are supposed to be my
jokingly refer to as my "hothouse flower." Compareddream person, too!"
to the rest of my herd, mostly mustangs, Walker is justWow! Now from a Shao Yin horse personality (read
a high-maintenance dude.more about horse personalities on the Horse Harmony
I'm a true believer in the barefoot approach, andwebsite by Dr. Madalyn Ward), that's a strong
Walker's feet are as soft and ouchy as clay. He'sstatement. Mostly Shao Yin horses want to please
super-talented at reining, but the least little scratch andpeople, want to get along. Yowza! Now I'm going to
his whole body swells up like a balloon. Get the picturehave to rethink the whole deal with Walker.
yet?I've always felt that my horses had to "earn their
So I've been wondering what to do with Walker. Hekeep," meaning they had to be good at their discipline
doesn't fit into my herd of "tough girls" (though he andand tough enough to stand up to a competitive show
Fezzywig, my other gelding, are now getting along wellhorse lifestyle. Be it penning, sorting, roping, jumping, or
in a pen by themselves) and I've been putting abouttrail riding, my horses are working horses.
feelers to people who might want to buy him. In theWalker's message was clear: he wants to work and
meantime, he gets supplements out the wazoo (myhe wants to stay with me, at least for now. When a
special horse goo times two), bodywork almost daily,Shao Yin makes such a strong statement, I'm forced
and lots and lots of food.to slam on the brakes and think about this. My thought
I have been rather disappointed because I boughtwas that Walker wasn't tough enough to hack it
Walker, at quite a high price, as kind of a "rewardaround here so he was outta here. His thought is that
horse" for myself. The rest of the time I start mustanghe needs the healing I can provide for him, so he
colts, who are quite the challenge and mostly not builtwants to stay.
for reining. Well, come to find out reining isn't really myWhat's a zen cowgirl to do? If I were a straight,
thing. Hence putting out the feelers to see if thenon-spiritual cowgirl, I'd say, "Tough patooties! You
perfect home for Walker might appear.gotta go." But being a spiritual kind of cowgirl, I'm going
Walker Pulls an NCIS "Gibbs" Maneuver on Me!to have to rethink this. I'm going to have to buy the boy
Well, the strangest thing happened yesterday. Walkersome boots. I'm going to have to find room in my heart
did the equivalent of slapping me upside the back ofand my "regimen" for a horse who isn't tough but who
my head, kind of like Jethro Gibbs does to his team onreally wants to be here.
the show NCIS. I had done some bodywork on WalkerOh boy... another freakin' growth opportunity! Gotta
and was sitting on a stool next to him, thinking aboutlove those! Oh well, everything happens for a reason,
selling him. Walker proceeded to put his head downright?
and bop me on the back of my head with his nose. HeSo what's the moral of the story?
then put his nose right in my face and blew snot onIf you don't listen to your horse's gentler attempts at
my face, about 10 times in a row.animal communication, be prepared to be slapped
I've taken a few animal communication classes in myupside the head. Most animals are persistent if they
time, but I don't excel at it (for excellent animalwant something badly enough, so start listening!
communication resources, check out Leta