Creating a Winning Relationship With Your Horse

Whether your horse is a high level show competitor, arelationship is commonly known as "natural
mobile lawn ornament or somewhere in between, it ishorsemanship". By using this training method, you show
important to have him under control at all times. Even ifyour horse that you are the alpha horse. Your horse
your horse falls into the mobile "lawn ornament"decides that it is in his best interest to take the
category, there will be times when he has to besubordinate role in exchange for the security you
handled to ensure that his basic hoof and veterinaryprovide.
care needs are met. In order to keep yourself, yourThe best way to have control over your horse is to
horse, and others safe, you need him to be calm anddevelop a relationship built on mutual trust &
well behaved in all situations.respect.
There are generally three types of horse/ownerYou can develop this type of relationship on the
relationships.ground by:
1) In some horse/owner relationships, the horse is the
leader. The horse determines what he will do and1. understanding how your horse interprets your
when he will do it. The owner adjusts her handling andmovements,
riding habits to suit the will of her horse. This is the "my2. setting clear physical boundaries while respecting
horse doesn't like that" relationship. The result is ayour horse's personal space; and
pushy, sometimes even aggressive horse (and usually3. getting your horse to move where you want him to
a nervous, fearful owner).move.
2) Another relationship type occurs when the ownerThis training can be done in a round pen, small
maintains "control" through inflicting pain as punishmentpaddock, in-hand, or on a lunge line. It does not require
to discourage unwanted behaviours. Such negativeany special equipment. But, because humans are
"motivators" can be spurs, whips, and chains. This isprogrammed as predators and horses are
the "I'll show you who the boss is" relationship. Theprogrammed as prey, the way we move and interpret
result is an unpredictable, sometimes resentful horse.body movements are very different. It is possible to
3) The third relationship type is one built on mutual trustlearn how to move more like a prey animal and
and respect between horse and human. Throughunderstand the horse's perspective of the world.
understanding the horse's perspective of the world, theThis type of training takes time (for the human to
handler takes on the alpha horse role. This is the "willinglearn) and patience. But, the result will be a confident,
partner" relationship. The result is a calm, trusting andwilling partner and a winning relationship for both horse
willing horse.and owner.
The type of training used to develop this trusting